Support for Parents Navigating PANS/PANDAS
In Oakland, CA and Online Across California
Practical, grounded support when you're managing the complexity, cost, and uncertainty of your child’s care.
You didn’t expect to become an expert in neuroinflammation, autoimmunity, and psychiatric flare-ups.
But here you are—managing meltdowns, advocating in schools, and questioning everything.
When your child’s symptoms don’t fit neatly into a diagnostic box, parenting can feel terrifying, exhausting, and isolating.
You deserve support from someone who understands both the clinical complexity and the personal toll.
I’m a licensed psychologist—and a PANS/PANDAS parent. I’ve lived it.
I know what it’s like to sit in a doctor’s office and not be believed. I know the grief of watching your child disappear into a flare. And I know how hard it is to keep advocating when you’re running on empty.
This work is designed to support you as a parent—so you don’t have to carry all of this alone.
You shouldn’t have to figure this out alone.
Parenting a child with PANS or PANDAS often means:
Behaviors that come out of nowhere
Doctors who don’t understand
Schools that push back or pathologize
Emotional whiplash from one day to the next
This isn’t about “bad parenting” or “just anxiety.”
You’re managing an invisible illness that affects your child’s brain, body, and behavior.
I offer a calm, supportive space to help you make sense of what’s happening, think more clearly about next steps, and stay grounded as you advocate for your child—without losing yourself in the process.
What We Can Work On Together..
Making sense of the PANS/PANDAS diagnosis and treatment process
Communicating more effectively with doctors, teachers, and family
Creating realistic, sustainable plans for home, school, and daily life
Thinking through treatment decisions with greater clarity and confidence
Navigating the emotional impact—fear, grief, and burnout
Supporting your own nervous system so you can stay steady and resourced
FAQs About Parent Support for PANDAS/PANS
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No, this is parent-focused psychotherapy, grounded in a supportive and practical approach.
Sessions are tailored to help you:
Think through complex situations and decisions
Navigate the emotional toll of parenting a child with PANS/PANDAS
Stay more grounded and resourced in the face of ongoing stress
My approach integrates supportive psychotherapy, problem-solving, and nervous system–informed strategies.
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I typically work with the primary caregiving parent, but sessions can occasionally include both if helpful. We’ll decide together based on your needs
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That’s fine! This is a focused, adjunct service. Many parents find it complements ongoing therapy well.
Resources for Professionals
Are you a therapist or mental health professional working with families affected by PANS/PANDAS? I've developed a training course specifically for clinicians who want to understand better and support this population.