Therapy for Infertility & Loss

In Oakland, CA and Online Across California

You can do everything right and still feel like your body failed you.

Let’s talk about what no one else knows how to hold.

Infertility and loss can leave you feeling helpless, broken, and unseen.

You’ve followed the rules. You’ve done the treatments, waited the months, held your breath with every test—and it’s still not working.
Or maybe you were pregnant, and now you’re not, and it feels like no one around you really knows what to say.

Each new pregnancy announcement feels like a personal failure.
You ask yourself, “Why her and not me?”
It’s an invisible grief, and yet it colors every part of your life.

Even if you’ve never told a soul, your heart is carrying a weight that deserves to be heard.

Wherever you are in this process, your pain is valid.
You are not alone—and this was never your fault.

Therapy that honors both the grief and the hope

You don’t need to keep pretending everything’s fine.
In our work together, you’ll have space to be angry, heartbroken, confused—or completely numb.

I offer therapy that’s warm, grounding, and nonjudgmental.
With over 20 years of clinical experience and a deep focus on reproductive mental health, I’ve helped many women and couples through the most painful parts of their journey to parenthood.

This work isn’t about “fixing” your feelings.
It’s about letting you feel them fully—while holding onto the parts of you that still long to hope.

Whether you’re facing another round of IVF, healing from a miscarriage, or wrestling with what comes next… you don’t have to do it in isolation.

Therapy for infertility and loss can help you..

  • Find peace while honoring your grief

  • Reconnect with your body with more gentleness

  • Manage anxiety, sadness, and medical trauma

  • Make space for both mourning and meaning

  • Explore new paths to parenthood

  • Heal from painful memories and reproductive loss

  • Feel less alone in your experience

    There’s no “right way” to grieve this.
    But there is support.

find light and strength

Find light despite the darkness. And strength despite the pain.

Infertility and pregnancy loss don’t define your worth.
You still deserve compassion, connection, and hope.
Let’s walk through this together.

FAQs About Therapy for Infertility & Pregnancy Loss

  • Yes. I work with individuals and couples. Therapy can help partners communicate better, support each other more effectively, and feel less alone.

  • It varies. Some people come short-term to process a loss or crisis; others stay longer to navigate ongoing fertility treatment or grief. We’ll work at your pace.

  • I use a trauma-informed approach including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Brainspotting when appropriate.

  • Yes. I also support clients experiencing other life transitions and grief beyond reproductive loss.